How to Get Kids Comfortable in Front of the Camera-California School Photographer-Bakersfield School Photographer

How to Get Kids Comfortable in Front of the Camera

One of the most rewarding parts of my job is working with kids and capturing their true personalities in photos. But let’s be real—getting kids comfortable in front of the camera can sometimes feel like herding cats. Every child is different, and it’s completely normal for them to feel shy or uncertain when faced with the lens. That’s where a little preparation and a whole lot of patience come in! Here are some tried-and-true tips for helping your kids feel at ease during photo sessions, so we can capture those authentic smiles and precious moments.

1. Keep It Light and Fun

Kids feed off the energy around them, so the more relaxed and fun you are, the better they’ll feel. Treat the photo session like an adventure rather than a chore. Crack jokes, play games, or let them bring along a favorite toy to make it feel like a playdate instead of a formal event. When kids are laughing and having a good time, their natural personalities shine through.

2. Talk About the Session Ahead of Time

Preparation is key! Before the session, explain to your child what to expect in simple, positive terms. Let them know they’ll be meeting a friendly photographer who wants to take pictures of them having fun. Avoid putting too much pressure on them to "behave" or "smile perfectly"—just encourage them to enjoy themselves.

3. Choose the Right Time

Timing is everything, especially when it comes to kids. Plan the photo session for a time of day when your child is well-rested and fed. Avoid scheduling during nap times or right before meals, as tired or hungry kids are less likely to feel cooperative. When kids are comfortable, they’re much more likely to relax and enjoy the experience.

4. Let Them Be Themselves

One of the biggest mistakes is trying to force kids into stiff poses or unnatural smiles. Instead, let them be themselves! Whether they’re goofy, shy, or full of energy, I love capturing their unique personalities. My approach is to create a space where kids can feel free to move, explore, and express themselves, so their true essence shines through in the photos.

5. Dress for Comfort

Kids should feel good in what they’re wearing. Choose outfits that are comfortable, not itchy or restrictive. While it’s great to coordinate colors and keep patterns simple, the most important thing is that your child feels confident and free to move around. When kids aren’t worrying about their clothes, they’re more likely to relax in front of the camera.

6. Trust the Photographer

As a seasoned pro with years of experience working with kids, I’ve seen it all—from toddlers having meltdowns to shy little ones who need extra encouragement. Trust me to handle the unexpected with patience and understanding. My goal is to create a comfortable, safe environment where your child feels seen, valued, and celebrated.

7. Give Them Breaks if Needed

Sometimes kids need a moment to regroup, and that’s okay! If your child starts feeling overwhelmed, we can take a short break to let them reset. A quick snack, a cuddle with mom or dad, or a few minutes to explore their surroundings can make a world of difference.

8. Celebrate Their Efforts

Kids love to feel appreciated, so be sure to cheer them on and let them know how well they’re doing during the session. Positive reinforcement goes a long way in boosting their confidence and helping them feel like they’re part of something special.

Creating Memories Together

The best photos happen when kids feel comfortable, happy, and free to be themselves. By following these tips, you’ll set the stage for a fun and stress-free session that results in beautiful, authentic portraits of your child. My goal is to capture the joy and connection that make your family unique, and it all starts with making your little ones feel at ease.

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With patience and care,
Heather Wheaton